Jennifer Lopezis not looking to head down the aisle again anytime soon. During a stop in Spain during her Up All Night tour July 15, as seen insocial media video, the singer spotted a fan sign that read: "JLo marry me." "I think I'm done with that," she said with a laugh, signaling a "no" with a neck-swipe gesture. "I've tried that a few times." Lopez is just coming off her divorce fromBen Affleck, which wasfinalizedin January, after Lopez first filed on Aug. 20, 2024, the second anniversary of the estranged couple'sGeorgia wedding ceremony. The two were engaged to each other twice: first in 2002, then again in 2022. Lopez has beenmarried four times: to then-waiter Ojani Noa, dancer Cris Judd, singer Marc Anthony – with whom she shares two children – and Affleck. Following tabloid rumors of their split, Lopez canceled herThis Is Me... Live tourand announced she was "taking time off to be with her children, family and close friends." She told comedian and TV hostNikki Glaserin anInterview magazine cover storyafter news of their divorce became public that the period was "probably the hardest time of my life." "There's times when I thought I figured it out, and then life goes, 'Let's send you another thing and see if you fall for it. Let's see if you really have learned that lesson,'"Lopez said in October. "And I hadn't. I understand that now in a much deeper way, which doesn't mean that I won't make mistakes in the future, but again, when your whole house blows up, you're standing there in the rubble going, 'How do I not ever let that happen again?'" Jennifer Garner, Ben Affleckreunite for family night at Boston Red Sox baseball game Affleck, 52,broke his silenceon the divorce in March, tellingGQ in an interviewthat he has "nothing but respect" for the singer and stressed that there was no single, dramatic event that ended their marriage. "There's no scandal, no soap opera, no intrigue," he told the outlet. "The truth is, when you talk to somebody, 'Hey, what happened?' Well, there is no: 'This is what happened.'" But Affleck said that while there is "a tendency to look at breakups and want to identify root causes or something," the truth of his split from Lopez "is much more quotidian than probably people would believe or would be interesting." Contributing: KiMi Robinson and Cydney Henderson This article originally appeared on USA TODAY:JLo jokes about marrying again during concert